Saturday, March 16, 2013

When Things Didn't Turn Out The Way You Want.

We often plan, and plan, and then plan some more, but we forget that there is a greater planner, Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. We may think we need or want something, but who knows our needs and wants better than our Creator?
We have two options when our plans don’t fall into place. The first choice is, we can either lament, feel disheartened, and bring not only ourselves down but those around us as well. And the second choice is, we can let go and place Tawakkul in Allah. The latter is undoubtedly one of the hardest things to do, but also the most relieving feeling in the world. Knowing that at the end of the day you need to give your 100% and leave the rest to Allah.
Allah knows what's the best for us. He won't place a burden greater than we can bear... and that's mean how hard you think the problems u're facing right now, it is actually something that you can still go through, something that you can still bear. How big our problems are, remember that there's other people who had to face bigger problems than us. People think that tests only come in the form of hardships. God also tests us with ease. And it's often in the test of ease that we fail the most.
Nobody has a perfect life. Everybody has their own problems. Some people just know how to deal with it in a perfect way.
Crying is the only way your eyes speak when your mouth can’t explain how things made your heart broken.
and that's what i always do and the only thing i can do
especially when things didn't turn out the way i wanted.
i cried when i couldn't catch up in studies.
i cried   when i've already put a very high hope but then it was cancelled.
i cried when i'm sad with my friends.
i cried when i didn't get what i want.
i cried when someone did bad things to  me.

other people also did the same thing.
When things do not go exactly the way we wanted, when we do not achieve what we have tried so hard to achieve or when we feel so let down by others, then always know that for as long as we have faith and trust in the Almighty, He definitely has something better in store for us, He has saved us from a calamity or disaster that would have been in our path or has elevated our status through surrendering to His decree. 

We are not considered believers until we are pleased with the Decisions of the Almighty. This will save us from much anxiety and depression. Try your best and leave the rest to Him. InsyaAllah :D